In my role as a trainer and mentor for a number of women’s development programmes, it’s important that I’m able to model the behaviours I’m encouraging other women to develop. I can’t hide behind excuses such as “it’s too difficult“, “what if I fail?” and “‘it’s scary.” I must lead by example. As I routinely reference inspirational quotes, I decided to apply the advice.
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Saying yes.
If someone offers you an amazing opportunity and you’re not sure you can do it, say “yes”, then learn how to do it later! Richard Branson.
Taking Richard Branson’s advice led me to accept an offer to be a webinar panellist for ‘AI and the Future of work.’ On the strength of one blog post on Chat GPT, suddenly it seemed I had sufficient wisdom to be called upon to contribute to a high-profile event which several hundred people had signed up to attend. I said “yes” all the while thinking “they must be mad- what do I know?” but somehow knowing that making the commitment would ensure I undertook enough research not to appear a complete fool.
Do you know how many reports were produced on Gen AI during last summer? Fortunately, there were a lot, so I was able to do my homework- and found myself enjoying the challenge.
Tip:
When you’re asked to do something that gives you butterflies in your tummy- say yes. Those butterflies can be reframed from fear to excitement and anticipation, enabling you to channel any nervous energy into your research and preparation.
2. Saying no
You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage—pleasantly, smilingly, non apologetically — to say “no” to other things. And the way you do that is by having a bigger “yes” burning inside.
Stephen Covey
Whereas “yes” opens up opportunities for growth I am also starting to enjoy flexing my “no” muscle. Saying “no” is about creating boundaries and having others respect these.
